When I was sifting
through old photographs the other day, I was struck by the fact that I’ve got a
lot of photos of children: children in sets and clusters of two, three, four and
more; children sitting on front steps, at picnic tables; boys in pup tents,
wearing scout uniforms; girls in rowboats wearing little white blouses and camp
kerchiefs; boys AND girls posed next to their bicycles.
Most of those
children grew up to be my grandparents or my great aunts and uncles; two of
them grew up to become my parents; seven are first cousins…one of those
children grew up to be me!
I digress.
This is a photo of my
mother and my aunt in the front walkway of my grandparents’ first house on Kirk
Street in Boston; Martha (left) and Hope Howell (my mother is the younger).
On the back of the photo, in my mother’s
handwriting, it says “circa 1924.”
I asked her once
about the date.
“I know it was 1924 or earlier,” she said, “because
my parents bought the house on Eliot Street, right near Jamaica Pond, in 1925—this
is definitely the Kirk Street house.”
She remembered
clearly the trellis for the roses, the wooden steps, the big rhododendron; she
remembered being told to hold Hope’s hand in a gesture of sibling
companionship.
“I was mad about
that,” she told me, grinning. “I wanted to be on my own.”
Actually, neither girl looks like they want to be holding the other's hand. How funny. They've probably had a good laugh about that over the years. A fun photo because of both of their expressions. You do kind of have to wonder what was going on there. :)
ReplyDeleteMy aunt Hope was five years older than my mother...so the spread was significant until they were in their twenties...and, yes, they did laugh about it!
DeleteAh yes - posing for photos - I loathed it and my mother was a keen amateur photographer. Being an only child I was often the subject/victim. I found it tedious in the extreme. Now of course, I am grateful.
ReplyDeleteFunny you should say that, Alex; my parents didn't take a lot of photos, and now I wish they had!
DeleteYes, the photographer gets to tell people what to do for that one second of time...and then they go back to living their own lives! But it's cute anyway!
ReplyDeleteI've always preferred totally candid shots...that way, you get people as they actually were, rather than the photographer's ideal of them!
DeleteI guess the sisters wwre not in the mood to be pushed together for a photograph, but still it is a nice shot. Good of you to restrict yourself to one photograph out of many, unlike me!
ReplyDeleteI've got one of them sitting together on a sofa when they were both in their 80s...seeing the two photos side by side is pretty amazing. (I should post those, right?)
DeleteDefinitely!
DeleteYou Both Look Ready To Run Out Of Shot! Tho,Great Photo None The Less!
ReplyDeleteYou're right, Tony -- both look very uncomfortable. Maybe that's why I don't have many photos of them as kids...
DeleteLovely post for Easter, looking back at even the simplest of moments in our lives brings that moment, our feeling and the joy with those we shared them with so much closer to us!
ReplyDeleteSimple moments are, I agree, the best. There's something unrehearsed and innocent about them. Thanks for your comment, Karen...
DeleteHow funny that you remember wanting to be on your own. I was the opposite driving my sister crazy shadowing her everywhere. Isn't it amazing how many memories are stirred when we really look at these photos.
ReplyDeleteAnd oftentimes, Helen, those memories are different for everybody in the photo--put four siblings in a room and ask them about a photo; they will all have different perspectives of the same event!
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