This is my maternal grandmother,
Verna (Vernette)…born in January of 1885 at Bear Island, Queensbury Parish, Province
of New Brunswick, Canada.
Her father had both a farm and a general store there—he sold flour,
meal, dry goods, groceries and hardware. Her chore on the farm was caring for
the chickens – feeding, cleaning the coop, collecting eggs, which she sold in
her father’s store for her first earnings.
She relocated to the
USA when she was just twenty-one years old; eventually worked as a nurse at
Faulkner Hospital in Boston, where she met my grandfather. She was his
operating nurse for a few years, then married him in 1911.
She lived the rest of her life in
Boston.
The photo was taken
by my grandfather in 1911, at Bear Island, where they traveled to be married in
her parents’ living room – their honeymoon was a week-long fishing and canoe
trip along the St. John River (note the rod by her side, resting on the seats).
She looks pretty fashionable: dark hose, skirt, middy blouse with tie; her
hair’s swept up a la Gibson.
I have her eyes.
She fished for her
supper in the St. John River as a child, fished later on in the lake near their
summer house in Jaffrey, New Hampshire. She taught me to fish in that same
lake; I caught my first perch in the shadow of Mount Monadnock—I remember the quiet
grinding of the oarlocks as my grandmother rowed me about in that soft, purple
light.
She loved dogs
(several cocker spaniels, oftentimes in pairs), fast cars (my mother remembered
her bombing around Boston in a bright yellow roadster). She ate apples and ripe
pears (Bosc preferred), liked the smell of horses and farmyards; she insisted
the alphabet ended in “zed.” She talked to crows, made fantastic blueberry
pies, sewed matching pajamas for me and my teddy bear, took me for long walks
in the woods and taught me to build houses for the Little People (who, she
said, migrated to and from Canada with the geese every spring and fall). She
bought me jeans and soft flannel shirts, Red Ball Jets and sweatshirts.
And she loved me; she was the first person in my life who accepted me
unconditionally.
I adored her.
She died in Boston on
May 27, 1957.