Here he is, looking like the Man of the Year.
He’s just out of high school –
the public high school in Newton, Massachusetts – and is about to start his
engineering course at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. 
          This
was my father’s favorite photograph of his
father, Gardner 
          The
nickname stuck; my grandfather was known as “Tom” all his life to family and
friends (except for my grandmother, who called him nothing but Gardner 
          At
any rate, here he is.
          Three-piece
suit (notice the rounded bottom of his vest – not the notched, pointed style);
stiff collar, cuffs (and cufflinks, of course); necktie.  The vest has a watch pocket – but there’s no
watch yet: that came at his MIT graduation in 1910.
I love the haircut: the central
part, the tufts over his ears, slight curls at his temples. He’s clean-shaven
(I can see the cleft in his chin). And is that a tin wall in the background, or
is it some kind of wall covering or drape? Chickering Studios in Boston 
One of his most memorable jobs
as a civil engineer was the building and installation of the portico that sits
over Plymouth Rock – I have a framed certificate that his crew presented to him
– sixty-odd signatures beneath a hand-written citation.
And he was a masterful cribbage
player! He taught us all to play (I think it was the first card game I ever learned);
I remember family gatherings involving cribbage games: single-elimination,
multi-generational tournaments that went on for hours after dinner; much
laughter and cheering, lots of encouragement. My mother played every time, even
though she hadn’t the faintest idea how to play the game – my grandfather said
he admired her for her willingness to participate in such a long-standing
tradition!
But those suits!
The real deal, indeed.

 
